Her First Time at the Hotwife Hotel (Cuckold Wife-Sharing)

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Hopefully, that isn't the case with you, but before we discuss it any further it's important that that's ruled out first. Just chill out. Your wife is faithful. Don't start treating her otherwise. She's already feeling awkward as it is. Trust me, awkward is no aphrodisiac when it comes to this other guy, so you have nothing to fear. No type of relationship, whether traditional or wife-sharing, has been able to stay in touch with the reality and true development in society. Each type is trying to create a one-all-fit rule. The earlier means for instance where you and your husband agree to have sexual intimacy with another set of couples, and it doesn’t go beyond that. In the latter, however, it goes beyond the sex.

Christopher Ryan, author Terry Gould, and researchers Baker and Bellis corroborated this fact by saying that there is a biological reaction happening that affects a male sexual drive after watching their wife with another man. To them, the husband becomes excited biologically to have longer, and more breath-taken and fun-filled sex subsequently with their wife. Other than that, it was a one time thing, these things happen. Your wife and yourself are young, and young folks usually don't think this is a big deal, which could explain her colleagues behaviour. Just laugh it off and lower your shoulders. You can't get all worked up over these sort of things because life will throw plenty more uncomfortable situations and non-preferable circumstances your way. So I agree, yes, it isn't nice that it happened and we'd rather it didn't happen again, but on the other hand, hey, what can you do? It's water under the bridge.But I wanted to try sex with strangers, one-night stands, threesomes… I’ve always had a fantasy of including more people in our playtime. Partner-sharing was high on my list of unrealized kinks. First things first....this is my first post....I am not trolling for anything. This is an honest account. Like it or don't, it is okay with me. I got so horny at his words that I couldn’t stop myself from riding my man right then and there on our couch. We almost spilled the wine. Your husband might be the type that simply derives motivation and some other gratifications known to him when he sees other men making love with you. This is further elaborated in David Ley’s Why would you do that? (Watch your wife with another man), some men actually opened up to him, saying because their wives are beautiful, they would prefer watching them being made love to by another man than watching some porn actress they don’t know. 2. Enhancement of sexual performance Saying no wasn’t as difficult as I thought it would be. The guys I politely rejected were totally cool with it, as this saved a lot of time on both sides. We could all move on to other people without feeling led on in any way. Online chatting had loosened me up a lot. I could never imagine I’d be so comfortable with talking to strangers about sex, given how awkward that was for me in real life.

It was another lazy evening at our house, us with a bottle of wine and some show on TV. We talked about everything and nothing, as we usually did, and once again, we arrived at the topic of sex. And then he said it; calmly, cooly, he said how he thought about it and how he would actually like to watch me have sex with someone else. The start of our relationship wasn’t anything special. We met, fell in love, and eventually got married. I’ve been with my husband for over 10 years now, and we are more than happy. He is my lover and my best friend, and I couldn’t ask for a better life companion. Not only that, but we were also really horny for each other. Our hookup infused energy into our sex life, something new and different than what we’ve had so far, and we couldn’t keep our hands off each other. I was kinkier than ever before, and my husband reveled in it. Once we arranged the details of everything, the guy offered to book a hotel. He said he would bring a couple of bottles of wine and make a small celebration of it. We agreed without hesitation. The Night of Sharing My Wife With Another Man Also, you're making decisions for her again. She *should* talk to her boss. She *should* go to HR. You may view it as an offense against the marriage, but your wife was the one offended by this situation, and she deserves rectification.Two days later my wife scheduled a three hour spa treatment for me at our resort. I had no idea what to expect. When I arrived I was taken to an open area in the mens section and asked to to remove my clothes. As they walked me to the massage area, I noticed that others had robes and I was the only one fully nude, which seemed odd. I also noticed some smiles/laughs that must have been due the very small penis I was not so proudly revealing. I was recruited by an older friend to have sex with his younger wife in his presence. This was about 17 years ago and the situation lasted for about a year, until I moved away from the area. Had I still lived there, it would have continued for much longer as it was enjoyable for all concerned. It’s simply a fetish that you’ve always wanted to try. A promise of an orgasm that will likely shatter you in all the best ways. Otherwise, you cannot go hunting, fishing, out for a weekend, or on any business trips of your own without your wife in tow. Get it? It's best to simply learn from what happened, and NOT rush to write up a list of "not-allows". They think that “Only if I can get my wife to sleep with another man, we'll be even, and my wife can't get angry if she finds out I cheated on her”.

This tool will do just that and pull up any hidden social media and dating profiles, photos, criminal records, and much more to hopefully help put your doubts to rest. ​ 4 Reasons Your Husband Thinks: I Want To Share My Wife 1. Voyeurism Welcome to r/hotwife! This subreddit is for hotwives and their husbands who actively participate in the "hotwife" lifestyle, also referred to as "wife sharing". This community is a place to post content of the hotwife enjoying a sexual relationship outside of your marriage. What is a Hotwife and where does it come from? It’s not easy when you essentially want to have sex with someone else but still remain in your long-term loving relationship. Most people won’t understand that it’s not about cheating. It’s not about your partner not being enough. r/Hotwife is a verified only subreddit. Only users who successfully verified are approved to submit posts.Sexual excitation increases for both partners as a result of the new types of sexual experiences and there are discussions of actual sexual experiences. Apparently, these might be a few of the reasons your husband may want to share you with another man. 3. The pleasure of the taboo Things are going great in your relationship, you love each other very much, but then out of the blue, he suddenly tells you that it would turn him on if he saw you sleep with another man. Next, you said your wife isn't "allowed" to go to future trips unless you can go? Pardon? You aren't in a position to boss your wife around. I'm sure she will agree to not go alone again as the episode was unpleasant for her as well, and she originally DID want you along, you were the one who didn't like the idea after all. However, careful with giving the impression that you own her is some way, or can make decisions on her behalf. She's a person, not an object. You marry her and get to life with her and all her senseless decisions, you don't marry her and then get to rule over her to prevent such senseless decisions. If you married a goof then respect her being who she is, you can't keep the goof under "control", the harder you try the further away you will push her. your wife is probably a person who finds it hard to say NO to people / be assertive..and thats not gonna work,she shouldn't have slept there and simply got another room.but since she ringed you up and talked to you about it and you,TOLD HER to RETURN TO HER ROOM later..she thought it was alright and didn't make much difference anyhow,they slept on separate beds.

This doesn’t have anything to do with how much you love your partner or how devoted to them you are. Kinks are kinks regardless of your romantic feelings, and sometimes you just want to discuss them with your significant other in hopes of them helping you bring those kinks to life. Although there are several reasons that could inform the decision of your husband to want to share you with another man, however, an increase in the level of trust your husband holds for you doubles, as jealousy will have become less of an issue in your relationship with the practice of wife sharing, particularly when the intention of sharing you with another man is all about sexual intimacy. 2. Cures sexual insatiability If you’re not sure where to start looking for future sex partners, Adult Friend Finder is truly an amazing place. Very open and welcoming and full of people who are just as kinky in bed as you are. Making a profile, there was a great decision on my husband’s part. The Man My Husband Shared Me With Are you prepared to be open and honest every step of the way? Communication is key. Without communication, none of this would have happened in the first place. The idea of hotwifing comes from the concept of a husband showing off and sharing his “hot wife.” The difference between hotwifing and cheating is consent: In a hotwife arrangement, the husband is fully aware and supportive of his wife’s affairs. In many cases, one spouse or the other even gains sexual arousal from the arrangement due to voyeurism, the thrill of doing something taboo, or an infidelity and/or jealousy fetish.But my husband was there, and with his help, I took this massive step, actually communicating my fantasies to a person who was interested in making them happen for me.